{"id":13694,"date":"2026-10-07T17:34:40","date_gmt":"2026-10-07T14:34:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/?p=13694"},"modified":"2026-10-07T17:34:42","modified_gmt":"2026-10-07T14:34:42","slug":"miqesia-mes-grave-themelja-e-padukshme-e-cdo-gruaje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/sq\/miqesia-mes-grave-themelja-e-padukshme-e-cdo-gruaje\/","title":{"rendered":"Miq\u00ebsia mes grave: Themelja e padukshme e \u00e7do gruaje "},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Miq\u00ebsit\u00eb mes grave jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme nga ato mes burrave. Dhe ato jan\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin ton\u00eb.&#8221; K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb i tha aktorja ikonike Jane Fonda n\u00eb emisionin CBS Sunday Morning.&#8221;Meshkujt shpesh q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb krah p\u00ebr krah, duke par\u00eb sport, makina ose gra, nd\u00ebrsa grat\u00eb ulen ball\u00eb p\u00ebr ball\u00eb, sy m\u00eb sy, dhe thon\u00eb: &#8216;Kam nj\u00eb problem, kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, mund t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmosh?&#8217; Ne nuk kemi frik\u00ebt\u00eb jemi t\u00eb preksh\u00ebm.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Viral Interview Moment with Jane Fonda, Lily Tomlin, and Sally Field Explaining Women&amp;apos;s Friendships\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WW0OxToTPC8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Dhe pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebtu q\u00ebndron di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb m\u00eb e thell\u00eb se thjesht &#8216;miq\u00ebsia&#8217;. \u00cbsht\u00eb hap\u00ebsira ku mund t&#8217;i lejoni vetes t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb. Pa role dhe pa maska. Kur ndjeni q\u00eb personi p\u00ebrball\u00eb jush \u00ebsht\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb, egojazhduket. Nuk ka m\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb dukeni m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb se sa ndiheni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr biseda<\/strong> <\/strong><\/strong> <\/strong> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Miq\u00ebsia mes grave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm biseda t\u00eb gjata p\u00ebr make-up-in gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb kafeje ose net koktejesh deri n\u00eb or\u00ebn 4 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit (edhe pse, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb plot\u00ebsimi i p\u00ebrsosur). \u00cbsht\u00eb lloji i marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies kunj\u00eb &#8220;Si je?&#8221; nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb pyetje rutin\u00eb, e detyrueshme, kur takon nj\u00eb t\u00eb njohur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb &#8216;M\u00eb trego \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh v\u00ebrtet me ty&#8217;. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb personi q\u00eb e kontakton me mesazh n\u00eb or\u00ebn 3 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit sepse nuk mund t\u00eb flesh nga mendimet. Personi q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb nj\u00eb &#8216;do t\u00ebjet\u00eb mir\u00eb&#8217; t\u00eb klishezuar, por do t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn edhe kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e pak\u00ebndshme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Dhe ato do t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pran\u00eb teje, pa marr\u00eb parasysh \u00e7far\u00eb po kalon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku gjith\u00e7ka ndodh shpejt dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore, k\u00ebto lidhje jan\u00eb t\u00eb rralla. Dhe pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb \u00e7muara. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Ndjeshm\u00ebria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dob\u00ebsi, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb filt\u00ebr<\/strong> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00eb thuash &#8216;Nuk jam mir\u00eb&#8217; nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb. Ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur je m\u00ebsuar t&#8217;i p\u00ebrballosh gj\u00ebrat vet\u00ebm dhe egoja jote ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb flet para teje, pa e pasur q\u00ebllim. Por miq\u00ebsit\u00eb mes femrave ekzistojn\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00ebarsye. Ato t\u00eb lejojn\u00eb t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh t\u00eb gjitha mbrojtjet. Kur je i preksh\u00ebm me personin e duhur, nuk humb kontrollin. P\u00ebrkundrazi, e rikthen at\u00eb. Sepse nuk e bart m\u00eb gjith\u00eb barr\u00ebn vet\u00ebm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"572\" src=\"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/photo-1-4-1024x572.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13657\" srcset=\"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/photo-1-4-1024x572.png 1024w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/photo-1-4-300x167.png 300w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/photo-1-4-768x429.png 768w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/photo-1-4-1536x857.png 1536w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/photo-1-4-2048x1143.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Dhe k\u00ebtu ndodh di\u00e7ka me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Ti fillon t\u00eb kuptosh se cil\u00ebt njer\u00ebz jan\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb &#8216;t\u00eb tuit&#8217;. Jo ata me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt thjesht kalon mir\u00eb, por ata q\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pran\u00eb teje kur nuk je n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e tua m\u00eb t\u00ebmira.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Jo \u00e7do miq\u00ebsi zgjat p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb normale<\/strong><\/strong> <\/strong> <\/strong> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Nj\u00eb nga keqkuptimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha \u00ebsht\u00eb se n\u00ebse nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsi p\u00ebrfundon, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka qen\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Njer\u00ebzit ndryshojn\u00eb. Edhe prioritetet ndryshojn\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Ka miq\u00ebsi q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura p\u00ebr nj\u00eb faz\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj: dit\u00ebt e shkoll\u00ebs, universiteti, puna juaj e par\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Pastaj ka disa q\u00eb zgjasin. Dhe n\u00ebse je me fat, ato zgjasin gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Pjekuria vjen n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ndalon s\u00eb u p\u00ebrpjekuri t\u00eb mbash \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me \u00e7do kusht. Dhe fillon t&#8217;i vler\u00ebsosh ato q\u00eb rriten s\u00eb bashkume ty. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Kur ndjen se nuk ke nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesesh se si shprehesh apo cilat fjal\u00eb p\u00ebrdor, sepse e di q\u00eb personi n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr do t\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb si duhet. Dhe edhe n\u00ebse nuk e b\u00ebn, do t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. Pa l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb shije t\u00ebhidhur nga di\u00e7ka e pap\u00ebrmendur ose e paqart\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Grat\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb forcojn\u00eb<\/strong> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Miq\u00ebsit\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta nuk jan\u00eb dramatike. Ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme. Pasi takon nj\u00eb person t\u00eb till\u00eb, nuk shkon n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi duke ndjer\u00eb se ke th\u00ebn\u00eb di\u00e7ka gabim ose se duhet t\u00eb analizosh \u00e7do fjal\u00eb. P\u00ebrkundrazi, ndihesh m\u00ebleht\u00eb. K\u00ebto gra nuk konkurrojn\u00eb me ty. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Ato nuk i minimizojn\u00eb arritjet e tua. Ato nuk t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb dyshosh p\u00ebr veten. Ato t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin, por gjithashtu t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs. Do t\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn kur ke nevoj\u00eb ta d\u00ebgjosh, por nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndojn\u00eb me t\u00eb. Dhe m\u00eb e \u00e7muara nga t\u00eb gjitha, ato jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb lumtura p\u00ebr ty. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e rrall\u00eb sesa mendon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Nj\u00eb mesazh q\u00eb pyet, &#8216;Arrite n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi?&#8217; von\u00eb n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje. Nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb pa ndonj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. &#8216;Jam krenar\/e p\u00ebr ty&#8217; kur e ke m\u00eb shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb ta d\u00ebgjosh. K\u00ebto gj\u00ebra nuk postohen n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, por jan\u00ebpik\u00ebrisht ato q\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb af\u00ebrsie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/bence-halmosi-0eErMhzFgvE-unsplash-2-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13663\" srcset=\"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/bence-halmosi-0eErMhzFgvE-unsplash-2-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/bence-halmosi-0eErMhzFgvE-unsplash-2-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/bence-halmosi-0eErMhzFgvE-unsplash-2-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/bence-halmosi-0eErMhzFgvE-unsplash-2-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/bence-halmosi-0eErMhzFgvE-unsplash-2-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Themeli i paduksh\u00ebm<\/strong> <\/strong><\/strong><\/strong> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Mund t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb karrier\u00eb, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, plane dhe q\u00ebllime. Por ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb shpesh mbetet n\u00eb plan t\u00eb dyt\u00eb: stabiliteti emocional. Ai rrall\u00eb vjen vet\u00ebm nga brenda. Ai shpesh nd\u00ebrtohet nga njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrreth jush. Miq\u00ebsit\u00eb mes grave jan\u00eb ai themel i paduksh\u00ebm. Ato jan\u00eb vendi ku kthehesh kur gj\u00ebrat b\u00ebhen t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. Ku nuk ke pse t\u00eb provosh asgj\u00eb. Ku pranohesh ashtu si\u00e7 je. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Dhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja, nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr numrin e miqve. Nuk ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rreth t\u00eb gjer\u00eb p\u00ebr t&#8217;u ndjer\u00eb i lidhur. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb person q\u00eb t\u00eb kupton v\u00ebrtet \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se i mjaftuesh\u00ebm. Sepse, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, miq\u00ebsia mes grave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs suaj. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga arsyet q\u00eb ju ndiheni mir\u00eb me t\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb dy shoqe t\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs mosh\u00eb, q\u00eb po kalojn\u00eb situata jet\u00ebsore t\u00eb ngjashme. Her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb gra me nj\u00eb diferenc\u00eb t\u00eb konsiderueshme moshe, q\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga nj\u00ebra-tjetra dheb\u00ebhen njer\u00ebz m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb dy motra, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, ose nj\u00eb gjyshe dhe nj\u00eb mbes\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, n\u00eb thelb t\u00eb gjith\u00e7kaje, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh e mb\u00ebshtetur dhe e dashur. Pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra na japin krah\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fluturuar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/getty-images-WxabaB944XI-unsplash-2-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13669\" srcset=\"https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/getty-images-WxabaB944XI-unsplash-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/getty-images-WxabaB944XI-unsplash-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/getty-images-WxabaB944XI-unsplash-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/getty-images-WxabaB944XI-unsplash-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/surecheck.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/getty-images-WxabaB944XI-unsplash-2-2048x1366.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Miq\u00ebsit\u00eb mes grave jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme nga ato mes burrave. Dhe ato jan\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin ton\u00eb.&#8221; K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb i tha aktorja ikonike Jane Fonda n\u00eb emisionin CBS Sunday Morning.&#8221;Meshkujt shpesh q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb krah p\u00ebr krah, duke par\u00eb sport, makina ose gra, nd\u00ebrsa grat\u00eb ulen ball\u00eb p\u00ebr ball\u00eb, sy m\u00eb sy, dhe thon\u00eb: &#8216;Kam nj\u00eb problem, kam nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, mund t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmosh?&#8217; Ne nuk kemi frik\u00ebt\u00eb jemi t\u00eb preksh\u00ebm.&#8221; Dhe pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebtu q\u00ebndron di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb m\u00eb e thell\u00eb se thjesht &#8216;miq\u00ebsia&#8217;. \u00cbsht\u00eb hap\u00ebsira ku mund t&#8217;i lejoni vetes t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb. Pa role dhe pa maska. Kur ndjeni q\u00eb personi p\u00ebrball\u00eb jush \u00ebsht\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb, egojazhduket. Nuk ka m\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb dukeni m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb se sa ndiheni. Nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr biseda Miq\u00ebsia mes grave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm biseda t\u00eb gjata p\u00ebr make-up-in gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb kafeje ose net koktejesh deri n\u00eb or\u00ebn 4 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit (edhe pse, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb plot\u00ebsimi i p\u00ebrsosur). \u00cbsht\u00eb lloji i marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies kunj\u00eb &#8220;Si je?&#8221; nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb pyetje rutin\u00eb, e detyrueshme, kur takon nj\u00eb t\u00eb njohur. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb &#8216;M\u00eb trego \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh v\u00ebrtet me ty&#8217;. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb personi q\u00eb e kontakton me mesazh n\u00eb or\u00ebn 3 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit sepse nuk mund t\u00eb flesh nga mendimet. Personi q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb nj\u00eb &#8216;do t\u00ebjet\u00eb mir\u00eb&#8217; t\u00eb klishezuar, por do t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn edhe kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e pak\u00ebndshme. Dhe ato do t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pran\u00eb teje, pa marr\u00eb parasysh \u00e7far\u00eb po kalon. N\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku gjith\u00e7ka ndodh shpejt dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore, k\u00ebto lidhje jan\u00eb t\u00eb rralla. Dhe pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb \u00e7muara. Ndjeshm\u00ebria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dob\u00ebsi, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb filt\u00ebr T\u00eb thuash &#8216;Nuk jam mir\u00eb&#8217; nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb. Ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur je m\u00ebsuar t&#8217;i p\u00ebrballosh gj\u00ebrat vet\u00ebm dhe egoja jote ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb flet para teje, pa e pasur q\u00ebllim. Por miq\u00ebsit\u00eb mes femrave ekzistojn\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00ebarsye. Ato t\u00eb lejojn\u00eb t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh t\u00eb gjitha mbrojtjet. Kur je i preksh\u00ebm me personin e duhur, nuk humb kontrollin. P\u00ebrkundrazi, e rikthen at\u00eb. Sepse nuk e bart m\u00eb gjith\u00eb barr\u00ebn vet\u00ebm. Dhe k\u00ebtu ndodh di\u00e7ka me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Ti fillon t\u00eb kuptosh se cil\u00ebt njer\u00ebz jan\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb &#8216;t\u00eb tuit&#8217;. Jo ata me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt thjesht kalon mir\u00eb, por ata q\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pran\u00eb teje kur nuk je n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e tua m\u00eb t\u00ebmira. Jo \u00e7do miq\u00ebsi zgjat p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb normale Nj\u00eb nga keqkuptimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha \u00ebsht\u00eb se n\u00ebse nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsi p\u00ebrfundon, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka qen\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Njer\u00ebzit ndryshojn\u00eb. Edhe prioritetet ndryshojn\u00eb. Ka miq\u00ebsi q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura p\u00ebr nj\u00eb faz\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj: dit\u00ebt e shkoll\u00ebs, universiteti, puna juaj e par\u00eb. Pastaj ka disa q\u00eb zgjasin. Dhe n\u00ebse je me fat, ato zgjasin gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Pjekuria vjen n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ndalon s\u00eb u p\u00ebrpjekuri t\u00eb mbash \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me \u00e7do kusht. Dhe fillon t&#8217;i vler\u00ebsosh ato q\u00eb rriten s\u00eb bashkume ty. Kur ndjen se nuk ke nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesesh se si shprehesh apo cilat fjal\u00eb p\u00ebrdor, sepse e di q\u00eb personi n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr do t\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb si duhet. Dhe edhe n\u00ebse nuk e b\u00ebn, do t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. Pa l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb shije t\u00ebhidhur nga di\u00e7ka e pap\u00ebrmendur ose e paqart\u00eb. Grat\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb forcojn\u00eb Miq\u00ebsit\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta nuk jan\u00eb dramatike. Ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme. Pasi takon nj\u00eb person t\u00eb till\u00eb, nuk shkon n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi duke ndjer\u00eb se ke th\u00ebn\u00eb di\u00e7ka gabim ose se duhet t\u00eb analizosh \u00e7do fjal\u00eb. P\u00ebrkundrazi, ndihesh m\u00ebleht\u00eb. K\u00ebto gra nuk konkurrojn\u00eb me ty. Ato nuk i minimizojn\u00eb arritjet e tua. Ato nuk t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb dyshosh p\u00ebr veten. Ato t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin, por gjithashtu t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs. Do t\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn kur ke nevoj\u00eb ta d\u00ebgjosh, por nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndojn\u00eb me t\u00eb. Dhe m\u00eb e \u00e7muara nga t\u00eb gjitha, ato jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb lumtura p\u00ebr ty. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e rrall\u00eb sesa mendon. Nj\u00eb mesazh q\u00eb pyet, &#8216;Arrite n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi?&#8217; von\u00eb n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje. Nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb pa ndonj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. &#8216;Jam krenar\/e p\u00ebr ty&#8217; kur e ke m\u00eb shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb ta d\u00ebgjosh. K\u00ebto gj\u00ebra nuk postohen n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, por jan\u00ebpik\u00ebrisht ato q\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb af\u00ebrsie. Themeli i paduksh\u00ebm Mund t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb karrier\u00eb, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, plane dhe q\u00ebllime. Por ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb shpesh mbetet n\u00eb plan t\u00eb dyt\u00eb: stabiliteti emocional. Ai rrall\u00eb vjen vet\u00ebm nga brenda. Ai shpesh nd\u00ebrtohet nga njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrreth jush. Miq\u00ebsit\u00eb mes grave jan\u00eb ai themel i paduksh\u00ebm. Ato jan\u00eb vendi ku kthehesh kur gj\u00ebrat b\u00ebhen t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. Ku nuk ke pse t\u00eb provosh asgj\u00eb. Ku pranohesh ashtu si\u00e7 je. Dhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja, nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr numrin e miqve. Nuk ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rreth t\u00eb gjer\u00eb p\u00ebr t&#8217;u ndjer\u00eb i lidhur. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb person q\u00eb t\u00eb kupton v\u00ebrtet \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se i mjaftuesh\u00ebm. Sepse, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, miq\u00ebsia mes grave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs suaj. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga arsyet q\u00eb ju ndiheni mir\u00eb me t\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb dy shoqe t\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs mosh\u00eb, q\u00eb po kalojn\u00eb situata jet\u00ebsore t\u00eb ngjashme. Her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb gra me nj\u00eb diferenc\u00eb t\u00eb konsiderueshme moshe, q\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga nj\u00ebra-tjetra dheb\u00ebhen njer\u00ebz m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb dy motra, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, ose nj\u00eb gjyshe dhe nj\u00eb mbes\u00eb. Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, n\u00eb thelb t\u00eb gjith\u00e7kaje, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh e mb\u00ebshtetur dhe e dashur. Pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra na japin krah\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fluturuar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":13677,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[115,111,117],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13694","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-teens-main","category-main-categories","category-topics","entry","post-inner"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Miq\u00ebsia\u00a0mes\u00a0grave:\u00a0Themelja\u00a0e\u00a0padukshme\u00a0e\u00a0\u00e7do\u00a0gruaje\u00a0 - Surecheck<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Pse jan\u00eb miq\u00ebsit\u00eb mes grave kaq t\u00eb vlefshme? 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